Sunday, September 26, 2004

Love is in the air (it must be spring)

This is going to sound dumb, but seeing my friends with their bfs, the ones with the really good relationships (from what I can observe anyway), really makes me smile. I think to myself, wow they're a really great couple, and it's so cool that God's arranged for these two people to meet, to fall in love. Plus you can practically sniff their happiness, it's that obvious. Little things like holding hands, knowing glances at each other.

Seeing my friends makes me believe in love, keeps me from being cynical. It's so easy to become cynical towards love, whether you're single or in a relationship. Seeing my friends with these great guys, I feel reassured that there are great guys out there. You can tell so much about a guy's character from the way they treat others. Every guy will treat their gf nicely, but the great ones, they're the ones who'll treat others with consideration and courtesy also. Even people they don't really know, like their gfs' friends (i.e. me). And that's when I know, my friend's onto one good thing, and he will really take care of her, treat her right.

To all my friends with great guys... I'm praying for you guys -- thanking God for His blessings and praying that He will continue to guide you(s).

To all my friends who don't have that blessing as yet -- let these lucky girls be our encouragement, rather than our source of envy/coveting/bitterness. You deserve nothing less than a guy who will treat me with respect, as well as you (as weird as that sounds).

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